Have You Seen My Netflix Show?

 

Hey, look! It’s my Netflix show!

 

A couple of months ago, in a talk I gave at my spiritual center, I spoke about something I’m very passionate about: my show on Netflix.

Have you seen it? It’s called Come Back New.

It’s a reality series about people who go to a tropical destination and spend one transformative week with a team of spiritual leaders and coaches. Whatever challenges or issues they arrive with dissolve over the course of seven days. At the end of their journey, they return home a new person. Hence the title, Come Back New.

You can’t miss it. Here, I’ll show you—it’s listed right there on the Netflix home screen under “We Think You’ll Love These.”

I had a great time talking about the show that day. Afterward, so many people told me they loved the idea and couldn’t wait to watch it.

To which I said: “Me too.”

You see, this show doesn’t exist—yet. Well, it does and it doesn’t.

Visualizing the Goal Before It Exists

Energetically, the show exists in my mind. But as a program you could watch right now on Netflix? I’m still working on that part.

This idea brings me to what I really want to talk about today: goals. Specifically, how specific should you be when defining your goals?

It’s the beginning of the year, and lots of people are asking this question. They might have a goal in mind, but they don’t know where to start.

How Specific Should You Be?

In Science of Mind, we teach that you want to be as specific as feels good. As you visualize your goal, add details as long as it feels right. The moment it feels heavy, overwhelming, or stressful, stop. You’ve gone too far. Your vision should feel inspiring, not burdensome.

For example, when I gave that talk, I created a piece of artwork imagining what the show might look like. It felt amazing to see it come to life in that way. Then I took it a step further and mocked it up on a Netflix home page. That was exciting! Each of those steps felt fun and energizing.

 

Hey, look! There’s what my show would look like if it were on Netflix right now!

 

But I didn’t try to plan every detail of the show or the path to get it made. Instead, I focused on the emotional essence: how I want the participants and the audience to feel. I know I want the show to feel like a tropical vacation in the middle of winter—warm, refreshing, and deeply transformative. That’s the clarity I’m holding onto as I move forward.

Giving Goals Room to Grow

I’m not under any illusion that Come Back New will be on Netflix tomorrow. This isn’t a one-year goal; it’s more like a three-year vision.

And that timeline feels right to me. It gives me space to dream big without feeling overwhelmed. It also gives the quantum field (or the universe, if you prefer) room to align the right people and opportunities to make it happen.

What’s important is that I’ve set a clear, achievable milestone for this year: by the end of 2025, I will announce the first Come Back New retreat for 2026.

This retreat will serve as a proof of concept for the show—a way to test the idea, gather feedback, and refine the experience.

Now that I’ve shared my vision, let me suggest some steps for how to bring your own goals to life.

7 Practical Steps to Achieve Your Goals in 2025

Whether your dream is to create a Netflix-worthy project or tackle a personal milestone, these strategies will help you turn your vision into reality.

1. Start with the End in Mind

Picture your goal as if it’s already accomplished. Imagine the details—how it looks, feels, and impacts your life. For me, that meant creating visuals of my Netflix show. You can do the same with a vision board, journaling, or even mockups. The more tangible it feels, the stronger your connection to it.

2. Break It Into Manageable Steps

Big goals can feel overwhelming, so break them down:

  • Short-Term Goal: What can you achieve this year? For me, it’s planning the retreat.

  • Mid-Term Goal: What’s your next milestone? Hosting the retreat in 2026.

  • Long-Term Goal: Where do you see this going? Launching the show.

Focus on one step at a time, and don’t worry about the entire path right now.

3. Let It Feel Good

Your vision should excite and energize you. If it starts to feel heavy or stressful, step back and simplify. Ask yourself: What feels right? For me, imagining the emotional impact of the show feels great; stressing over technical details does not.

4. Trust the Timing

Big dreams take time. Set a timeline that feels realistic and gives you room to breathe. For Come Back New, three years feels perfect. What timeline feels achievable and exciting for your goal?

5. Take Inspired Action

Start small. Here are a few simple steps to get moving:

  • Share your idea with someone who can support or encourage you.

  • Spend 30 minutes brainstorming or researching.

  • Block out regular time each week to work on your goal.

You don’t need to know every step. Just focus on the next one.

6. Stay Open to Opportunities

While it’s important to be clear on what you want, leave room for surprises. Sometimes the universe delivers something even better than you imagined. Be flexible and open to the possibilities. For me, maybe Netflix won’t even be where the show ends up. I’m looking at you, Max.

7. Celebrate Your Progress

Every step forward is a win. Celebrate your milestones, no matter how small. For me, seeing my mockup felt like a huge accomplishment. Recognize your own moments of progress and let them fuel your momentum.

What’s Your Vision for 2025?

As you think about your goals for the year ahead, remember: you don’t have to know all the answers right now.

Just start with what feels clear and take one inspired step at a time.

Trust the process, stay open to possibilities, and enjoy the journey.

So, what’s your vision for 2025? What’s the first small step you’ll take to make it real? Have fun with it! Almost like you were on a TV show!

Dr. Thor Challgren

Dr. Thor Challgren is a TEDx Speaker, New Thought Minister, and author of Best Vacation Ever. He inspires audiences to take bold steps in life, focusing on personal growth, purpose, and the power of short-term goals.

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